Dear Pastor Sam Column
Dear Pastor Sam,
Several years ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. He didn’t know I found out but I confronted the lady and she called it off. Things got worse after that and my husband left me and went to live with this lady. Recently he contacted me and said he wants to get back together. He never married the lady and we never got divorced. Are we still married?
I’ve Been Hurt
Dear I’ve Been Hurt,
Wow this is a tough call. You are the only one that can decide on this one. If you never divorced you are still married but I suggest you get counseling before you get back together. Talk with your Pastor and I am sure he can help you.
You need to make sure that he doesn’t do this again and you need to make sure that you want to go through this again. I am praying for you and I hope you will keep me posted on how things go.
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