Dear Pastor Sam Column

Dear Pastor Sam,

If you are dating someone exclusively and they go out on a date with someone else behind your back; is that wrong? My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three years and out of the blue he went on a date with another girl. When I found out and ask him about it he said it was just a dinner with no strings attached. Isn’t that wrong?

I Am Burning Hot

Dear Burning Hot,

Yes you are right it isn’t right and it is good you confronted him. The question is how many other times has this happened that you didn’t know about. I think you need to have a heart to heart with this guy and make sure that he is still committed to you or is he looking around.

Pastor Sam

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